Boasting in Others Shame
By Ericka, Campus Branch Staff Member
12-30-2001
Did you know that one of the first gossipers in the bible was
a
man?
That's what this one's all about, who's talking about who, and the
implications of that. Whether a man or woman one of the things we all
got
to learn is how not to spread other people's shame.
I was hanging out at the homestead one afternoon, studying one of the best
books of the bible, Genesis. When I came to chapter nine, I read a story
that a lot of us may be familiar with. Noah, and the family had just
gotten
off a boat that they'd spent forty long days and nights all cooped up in.
Meanwhile, the rest of the world perished. Imagine being Noah, stepping
out
of that beast of a boat only to see, that as land began to appear the
corpses of many others were dead and lying about. Not a pretty picture at
all.
None of us take the time to see it that way because the author spared
those
gory details from the reader. But its obvious that the bodies couldn't
have
just disappeared, because, of Noah's response.
In Genesis 9:21 it talks
about Noah getting drunk. Now bear with me, some of you are wondering
what
this has to do with spreading the shame of others-I'm getting there. Noah
just got filthy drunk, and it doesn't tell us why. Maybe he just liked
the
wine too much, maybe he'd just had a fight with the wife, or maybe it was
because of the world having died and gone to everlasting. No one knows
for
sure. But we do know that his drunkenness was a sin against God.
In Ephesians 5:18 it says, "Do not get drunk on wine, which leads to
debauchery. Instead be filled with the spirit." Knowing that God is the
same today, yesterday, and forever after, we understand that Noah messed
up!
The same thing happens to our brothers and sisters in Christ sometimes.
They may become jealous, rude, selfish, full of pride, and even greedy.
Some of them even display their shame openly. Many of them may have seen
terrible things like Noah did. Tons of bodies--or problems, may be
outside
the boat that God saved them in. They may have a hard time dealing with
that. They may come to you for help.
There are many responses we can give to a person in need. Noah's shame
was
exposed explicitly in Genesis 9:22. Ham saw his father as naked as the
day
he was born.
Unfortunately Ham responded much like we do sometimes when
our
fellow Christian's shame is exposed. We tell the world about it. In
verse
9:22-23 we see two different responses,
"Ham the father of Canaan, saw his father nakedness and told his two
brothers outside. But Shem and Japheth took a garment and laid it across
their shoulders; then walked backward and covered their father's
nakedness.
Their faces were turned away so they would not see their father's
nakedness."
Ham responds by spreading his father's shame, but his brother Shem and
Japheth cover up their father's shame. Shem and Japheth knew that it was
not their job to judge, or disgrace their father. That was a
responsibility
of God. They also knew that if they dishonored Noah that they would
dishonor God, for Noah was a child of God.
At time, Ladies, we too, act like Ham. We become our brothers and sister
adversary instead of helper. We spread the shame of some sin they are
trying to conquer and be victorious over, instead of covering their shame
and helping them become pure again. The scary part is when we pass
judgment
on a person as a result of being exposed to their shame. Ham told on his
father, as a result God dealt with him for trying to play the part of the
Lord Almighty.
In Genesis 9:24-10:1-12 I recognized God's way of dealing
with people who judge his children.
God allows Noah to curse Canaan, who happens to be Ham's child. Canaan
ends
ups starting cities that fight God's kids all throughout the Old
Testament.
Those of you who have read a lot of the Old Testament may recognize some
of
these armies, the Amorites, and Hittites. Even Cush, another son of Ham
had
some impacting influence. Cush's son Nimrod started cities like Babylon,
Assyria, and Nineveh. These places are commonly known as places of shame
and disgust to the Lord, and full of lawless people.
One act of Ham, taking it upon himself to shame his father, effected his
son
and generations to come. What we do and how we treat others is important.
The tongue is a dangerous weapon.
As far as I know, we don't directly see
how God deals with Noah's sin of drunkenness, but he really lays the
hammer
on the judgmental Ham. So before you find yourself gossiping about
someone
else's situation of shame and struggle, remember what happened to one of
the
first gossipers in the bible. The tongue of destruction became a lineage
of
destruction.
They weren't kidding when they said the bible has something on
everything! God bless you all and remember as you walk out in this
world
to Love the Lord with all your heart, and love your neighbor as yourself!